Become Love: Surrender, No Objection

I have realized the ultimate reason why one should choose to become love.

For a better quality of life that one should let themselves living.

For instance; We think it’s love if we hold other people accountable for their wrongdoings, and remind those who are not on the right path or tweak over those who are morally or justifically incorrect, we will be endlessly looped into the cycle of misery.

Even with the intention of benefit or goodness in correcting other people, we are weighing our outer perspective on a comparison with our inner selves.

How am I Connecting Love to Intention of Goodness?

Basically everyone is talking in a secret language of LOVE, some are speaking in jumble words, some are mumbling, and some are talking oppositely to what the want to say. But, everyone is talking in a different quality of LOVE. And the mysterious point behind this language is? They are not talking to the outside world; they are talking to themselves.

To help you understand, person A is watching out for Person B after an argument upon objectifying something true, based on his actions and behavior Person A is adjusting his reactions.

What does that make of Person A?

He is sync to Person B. However and how much ever Person A is in denial of Person B, he is becoming reflection of just that he is in disagreement with. So you can think Person A was disagreeing with Person B or was he arguing with the version of himself?

Once you start in the loop of objectifying, you will not be able to see that you are unsatisfied with your own self, you will not find pleasure in what you do best.
You will feel a little less in everything you do. You will feel a little less than everyone around you. You will feel you don’t have enough to enjoy life and that makes you miserable.
Basically, you will be dragging on your life without realizing that what was not there has now become your reality. So in the benefit of goodness, you lost all your good parts.

This is where Maulana Rumi says, “Try something different, Surrender”

This example applies to everyone:

Be it parents who are in disagreement with children over their behavior. What does it make you if the children are not reacting or changing their actions and you are still upset?
You should Surrender your disagreement and realize that if they change themselves just to please you, they are doing it behind your back. If they are not changing themselves just yet, then with time they will eventually understand by suffering the loss that you wish them, not to.

Or, be it siblings or classmates, who feel they are working too hard but the other person is not contributing as well. Surrender your fight, and understand that you all have very different paths to unfold, give it time; the quality of everyone’s effort will bring them to the result, whether be it less or more.

Try speaking softer, calmer, and gentler to your self. You deserve the favors of the universe and its Creation. Don’t let the harshness of your words put you in misery; nothing is outside you. Nothing is bigger than YOU. You have to let yourself become love; just for the sake of the Favourful life that is promised to you, once you do you are awakened in the world of Ar Rahman.