Sex Drive in Human :Part 5
Role of Religion and Society
In previous posts, several times it has been revealed that sex and sexual desire is in human software and religion teaches human about ethics of its performance, along withright people and at right time.
It means that if notion of “sex” would be evaluated without the parameter of religion and considered as purely CREATOR’s gifted software inhuman-hardware, then it reveals that this process does not recognize any relationship,boundary, religion or ethics. This process is beyond the relationship of mother, sister, and daughter. If the idea of religion gets removed, which teaches human to practice it with wives and husband only, it illustrates that sexual desire does not recognize female as mother, daughter, or sister.
Every day, there are so many examples in newspapers and magazines about this fact.
In Europe there was a couple married for ten years and had had two children. It has been discovered that both husband and wife were actually siblings,abandoned by their mother during infancy. However, this news did not affect both husband and wife. The wife remarked that she considered him only as a husband and will always see him with eyes of loving wife and intended to have more kids with him.
This very example illustrates the above argument quite precisely. Religion and society called that couple as brother and sister, but their penis and vagina have no concern with it, which only needs satisfaction and fulfillment of each other desires.
Similarly, the example of Brooke Sheild’s movie “The Blue Lagoon” also highlight this factor, in which brother and sister left alone in island and when they reached to puberty they began to have sex. As they were out of traditional boundaries of society and religion, therefore their mind did not develop the idea that their sexual relation is forbidden. Rather, their sexual drive took the power and the Brooke Sheild ended up getting pregnant by his brother.
Recently, I read another article from India in which a teenage girl was constantly raped by brother, father, and father’s brother and her mother was unable to do anything. Although, it is very insane and horrible but it also reveals that human body, brain, and sexual desire does not value the societal relationship. It only aspires to fulfill its hunger by any means.
Again, it develops the understanding that why general religions ordered humans to keep decent distance with father, brothers, and sons after certain age. The major reason is that society and religion (collectively) set a boundary that human cannot have sex with certain people. The relationship of brother-sister, mother-son, and father-daughter does come under the boundary of no-sex, rather they considered as very sacred.
The very near example is one of my friends:
Throughout the childhood she has been sexually assaulted by her brother. Her brother used to torn her trousers from the side of vagina, ripped her bra from nipples, used to watch her when she was changing, bathing and defecating.
The saddest part is that her parents knew everything but they did not do anything to protect her. Apart from her tragedy, it shows that how unchecked-sexual desire abolish the social and religious boundaries once in all.
Females are hornier than MEN:
Here, it is important to mention that man are not the only offenders, because, females are hornier than them. Is it wrong? No. It is not, because Creator designed female body to reproduce. Therefore, her sexual desires are far stronger then male.
When the puberty come, female’s body begin to prepare itself for reproduction and right time usually arrives in late 20s. This is the most strong and suitable mating period, in which every part of female body is ready to participate in sexual process to reproduce the new generation. This is the reason that those girls who get married in late teens or early 20s usually remain sexually unsatisfied throughout the life. In the contrary, those who get married in later 20s, experience prolonged pleasurable and most satisfying sex than former.
Just like male, those girls who have strong sexual desires but possess no male companion, also practice masturbation. In west, it is considered as common thing; however, here it is still a taboo mainly because of its lustrous intention. Those girls who are innocent enough not to indulge in masturbation, but have strong sexual desires usually face acne problem on face. Similarly, the constant desire of sex also destroys the youthful glow and brightness from their face.
It is possible that this evaluation can be wrong here, but it has been deduced that female usually try to find their mate by revealing their bosoms. It is not necessary they torn off their shirt, rather it can be done quite delicately which depicts the situation of “saaf chupthay bhi nahi samnay atay bhi nahi (not entirely invisible but also not visible)”. The hunters recognize this move and take their action.
It has been found that the very shape of female bosom has been designed by creator in the way that an ordinary male cannot escape from it, unless they are highly trained. The very act of showing bosom, highlights the internal desire of female body which is hungry to go through with sexual process and reproduce.
And the dilemma is that these very girls don’t even know what they are doing.
Their software commands them from subconscious mind and they follow the orders unintentionally.
The culture of SELFIE:
If Selfies are to be analyzed with critical eye, it reveals that in group form it consists of several faces only, while, the individual Selfie show the face, breast and waistline, which is enough to grab the attention of masturbating-perverts.
The issue of widow and divorce women:
It has been already discussed in detail that sex does not consider any boundary from society or religion, thus, those females who get accustomed to its taste and pleasure want to do it again and again.
This is the major reason that females tend to ignore the idea of divorce or separation from abusive husband. No matter, how much husband beats her and abuses her, if he is fulfilling her sexual appetite she will not prefer to end the relation and if the husband has money then chances of separation reaches to zero level. Is the ordinary women bad or prostitute? No. She is not because she is not aware of this reality.
Her desire is in her software, which forbids her to take specific action. In similar way, those women who get widowed are also sexually active, because, and they are extremely vulnerable regarding sex. They had had experience this pleasure and in sub-conscious they does not get accustomed with the idea that they can’t have this pleasure again. It shows that widowed and divorced women should get remarried as soon as possible because their sexual desires may led them to wrong means of satisfaction.
In my observation, I came across with a house maid whose husband had died six months ago but she tried to develop sexual relationship with the husband of her boss.
On this note, I would finally like to conclude the series these bogs-articles, in which it has been learned that no matter how pious human become, he cannot escape from sex unless he is spiritually and physically trained by real Master, because it is in his software. And frankly, there is a no need to escape from, when world’s leading spiritual personalities have practiced it themselves.
All human needs is to remain aware that what he is doingand with whom he is doing it. In this regard, in contemporary age of media, another responsibility has burdened the shoulder of parents that now they are compelled to teach and train their children about sex in order to protect them from creepy and absurd understanding of this very phenomenon.
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