Sex Drive in Human Part 4

Friendship between Male & Female

With respect to my previous posts, in which I mainly tried to highlight the element of LUST so far, hence, in this piece, I endeavored to address the issue of friendship between male and female.  

Most of the people in Pakistan’s society claim that friendship between both genders can survive and it is usually most reliable one as compare to same-gender friendship. However, if we analyze the software of human brain, it performs only two functions:

1. survival
2. reproduction

This have been also discussed in the previous parts that reproduction is in genes of every creature of this earth. CREATOR created male and female body with a unique diversity and inserted the element of attraction between them.

1. Every person from teenage to ninety(s) would see a woman’s breast first. There is nothing wrong in it, nor can that man be considered as pervert, because it is in his software to judge the extent of female’s curves in first encounter.
2. Similarly, females also evaluate and measure man’s chest, squares and bottom at first sight.

Here, again religions of world teach manners and ethics to human and takes them out from this barbarism of natural software. Every religion orders its followers to keep their gaze low, during conversation with opposite gender, and it is forbidden to stare each other intentionally.

Hence, in the presence of such quick and rapid software in between, how can male and female become friends?. I don’t think they can be if they would, then west must not be experiencing the culture of “one night stand” among friends and “friends with benefits”. The sexual desire definitely comes in between them, that’s why they either sleep once or often with each other. 

In our society, these desires are silently conveyed through sexual or “adult” jokes between friends in schools, colleges and universities, which is normally neutralize by the sentence that “Oh come on dude I was just kidding. I didn’t mean that”. They forget that word=creation, if someone is saying something than he/she desire it somewhere back in mind. In this regard, a notion has been developed that friendship between both genders can only be survive if both of them are highly trained by experienced and extensive Masters.

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