Sex Drive in Human: Part 3
In my previous two articles, I used the word “man” in title which I now considered as biased. I am talking about human so, I changed it with Sex Drive in Human.
Earlier, I discussed that how ICT has influenced our society and participated to further knit it. In this regard, hypocrisy emerged as a byproduct. Here, in this post, an attempt has been made to explain the further consequences of hypocrisy and what it produces on its own.
First of all, let’s put the male’s reproductive part “penis” in perspective. When males are not able to fulfill their sexual desires due to absence of female partner, then ultimate solution is masturbation, which normally 90% of men perform from highest social class to the garbage collector. Masturbation is the process which gives pleasure to males and they feel like they are having sex with females. Similarly, some of the females also practice it on regular basis, to get sexual pleasure and when they have issues to find mate. In West, it does not considered as “objectionable act”, but our society and its social beliefs, along with the upper cream of our CLERGY considers it as Haram. The objective of this post is not to discuss Masturbation as halal-haram act, but it is intended to explain the negative results, which it generates on any human both physically and spiritually.
Now, as far as the sexual desire and culture of so-called “relationship” is concerned, those males who possess strong and active sexual desires but they are unable to find any mating-partner, usually ends-up in practicing masturbation, by having the imagination of particular female’s face and body (who might belong to their social circle) and the same act is performed by females on any male. The issue did not end here; rather it got worse by facebook, instagram, twitter and culture of Selfie, which are so-called byproduct of ICT.
These social networking websites have removed the culture of decency, which was quite prevalent in Pakistan’s society decade ago. Due to these sites, now, most of the females upload their pictures online, so, people could see those pictures and complement them. In psychological context, this commenting process fulfills the hunger of recognition and appreciation in females. Recognition and appreciation are common traits of human psyche and everyone wants to earn them. These are those hidden aspects of human’s sub-conscious mind, which may push him to every extreme. As far as the matter of uploading pictures on social media is concerned, most of people hide these internal desires by giving logic of privacy on these networking sites, which prevent them from pervert stalkers. But, what about those pervert who are already added in their friend-list and they are known as “nice-people”. The point is that the perverts are human too and they can be anyone in disguise of mature beings. They can easily copy pictures in their personal devices like, computers, phones and even in mind. What happens that these very perverts masturbate by keeping that particular female’s face and body in imagination.
It is one of the dangerous action which not only harm the males but also snatch the glow and vitality of females, because, this act is so negative and powerful that it makes male and female sexually-discharge during sleep and it is also scientifically and spiritually proved. (If anyone has objection on its scientific approval then he/she must read the book “Masters of Sex” and also watch the series. It will show you that how much research has been going on about every dimension of sex and how William Masters and Virginia Johnson has discovered its entire structure and anatomy.) In this regard, you must have seen certain males from very good families, highly educated and religious and well-mannered, but they have strange kind of creepiness on their face and eyes, due to which most of the females prefer ignoring them. That creepiness and negativity is mostly done by masturbation and constant lustrous desire of sex. Similarly, before social-networking websites and Selfie culture, no one was able to see pictures of girls from respectable families, but now everyone is not only able to see those pictures, but also save them in their personal devices and situation got further worst by online pornography.
The question is how it is sure that they live in such state of mind? The basic answer is that CREATOR has gifted women to recognize man’s intention in thousand parts of second. Women know that if someone is staring them with impure intentions. The process of masturbation not only sucks out all the beauty and warmth on man’s face but it also destroy the beauty of those females who have been imagined in practice of masturbation by males or practice it by themselves. Consequently, their health begins to decline, glow of face get dim, dark circles appear, body pains started, feeling of sadness and grief overtake their emotions without any significant reason and their overall appearance get badly affected. This is the most pertinent reason that CREATOR order females to cover their head and breast from everyone except husband and this order is also visible in world’s three major religions Christianity, Judaism, and Islam.
Masturbation has nothing to do with any religion; it can be practiced by any one from any region from any culture. This act is wrong in its own nature, because it ORIGINATES from LUST. The dilemma is our society condemns it on the name of Religion, and practices it most widely.
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