Recently, I came across with video in which a guy talked about the control that he REALIZED that he cannot control the world and people around him but, can control his own actions and deeds.
Control is that phenomenon of Non-Aware mind, which may destroy the people’s lives and filled it with poison. The irony is everyone just want to administer it with the maximum capacity.
Fathers want to control the life of their children, wives are concerned with controlling husband’s desires, husbands are intended to practice control on every action of their wife and children want to control their own life.
AlhumdulilAllah, my life has been fortunate enough to have appropriate freedom and liberty in it. My parents and siblings never tried to control my life and destiny. Rather, they supported me to acquire my targets and goals, due to which I reached to their present state. However, not all
people are that lucky enough. Recently, I came across with a girl in my van to whom I built a good understanding. As she was telling me about her life, I was horrified to know that how controlling her parents are. She wanted to study literature but her father forced her to study economics. She was working more than a year and about to get a promotion, but her parents forced her to leave the job so, they may find a GOOD MATCH for her.
Similarly, there is certain acquaintance of mine who are considerably well off. Their daughters do not wear anything other than the brand, but they also do not possess the freedom to choose their subjects for study and not allowed to choose husbands’ for themselves. They are compelled to marry the person, which is chosen by their parents.
The phenomenon of control appears when we so INDULGE with our desires. We want to shape the life of our surrounding people with respect to OUR STANDARDS AND BELIEFs. We try to impose OUR LEARNING on their life. Nevertheless, human fails to recognize that life is itself a quite dynamic phenomenon and change is constant. WE HAVE NO ABILITY TO GENERATE
CONTROLLED ENVIRONMENT FOR SPIRITS. ONLY ZOMBIE-LIKE- HUMANs CAN
LIVE IN THAT ENVIRONMENT.
And trust me, there are millions of Zombie people who happily live and prefer to live in the CONTROLLED state. The reason is that they CAPACITY to understand LIFE beyond their BELIEFS.
Nevertheless, those who get LIGHT of Creator always challenge this social SYSTEM. They fight with it FACE-TO- FACE and refuse to accept the so-called norms and traditions of society. So, it is the time we should evaluate our own life that is WE VICTIM OF SOME CONTROL
OR WE ARE CONTROLLING SOMEONE.