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Be-Friend with Universe: Part III Gut Feeling

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Be-Friend with Universe: Part III Gut Feeling

Be-Friend with Universe: Part III Gut Feeling

Human’s naval point has main role in his survival. In mother’s womb, the placenta at baby’s naval connects it with mother and acts as a source of food and water from her. Therefore, in spirituality, the naval point or the gut feeling has a significant position. Monks, healers, Sufis, and those who believe in spirituality give special emphasis to gut-feeling and consider it as a major source of healthy lifestyle.

Gut-feeling is a unique sort of sensation in abdomen at naval point. It talks about everything and acts as an internal-communication-device in every human. The introverts experience this feeling at extreme level because they are in habit of talking with themselves and prefer to enjoy their own company. This feeling gives directions to human about everything and unleashes those feelings hidden in his sub-consciousness.

It is also viewed as sixth sense of human which alarms him about unseen things and incidents. This sense works separately from his five installed senses of listening, tasting, smelling, seeing, and speaking. It alarms the human about any future incident from minor to major significance.

Every human is capable of gut-feeling and experience it in daily basis. Some people experience it more than other ones. In fact, the level of authenticity, connection with universe, and extent of AGFLAP hugely depended on one’s focus on gut-feeling. It not only informs the human about the likely happenings of the future but also strengthens his inner-self. It makes him to acknowledge his feelings – whether positive or negative – and connects him with the core of Spirit.

Those humans who pay attention to their gut-feelings are considerably more content, peaceful, focused and stress-free in life. They have more capacity to appreciate the significance of NOW and letting-go of negative energies. Some humans have less sensation about it and likely to feel it less often.

It is important to understand that gut feeling is that phenomenon of human which works on the basis of attention and focus. Those who pay keen attention it have ecstatic level of gut-feeling. They seek answer of every question through it and often find it 100% productive. On the other hand, those who are not inclined to it, have minimum experience about it. These people try to find answers from outer world instead of inner world of gut.

In order to be on path of LIGHT and self-discovery, it is necessary to activate the GUT-FEELING. It is the only light which shows path to human race in most darkest times.

Attachments Part 2: Embodiment of False Securities: A Sugar Coated Poison

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Two types of Human beings:

There are two types of human on earth, Aware and Non-Aware. Aware are those who do not become victim of AGFLAP, remain synchronized with Universe and maintain certain harmony with Earth. Non-Aware humans are those who love Mind-Based and Emotion-Based drama. They consider them as their objective of life (in fact consider them as LIFE). Actually they are unable to decide certain Target for themselves beyond this realm.

There is another element which differentiates between aware and non-aware human being and that is ATTACHMENTS. Attachment stands for development of certain security by associating with certain human or thing. People proudly say that they are strongly attached to their mother, father, pet, room, car, institution or materialistic things . They are so involved in their attachments that they feel that it would be impossible for them to live without those people or things to which they share this bond.

Hence, the existence of those people and objects give them FALSE SECURITY. These people think that as far as their favorite people or objects are around, THEY ARE SECURE. However, humans are capable of deception and objects are likely to break or disappear. It means that this SENSE of SECURITY is such shallow that it cannot be guaranteed forever.

Those who live in such securities are unable to imagine their life beyond their ATTACHMENTS. They feel that there is nothing beyond their ATTACHMENTS. This thought prevents them to go out and explore the world. They are unable to accept the actual realities and mostly spend their life for false values and principles.

Breaking Attachment means being Isolated?

Displaying Attachment embodiment 2.PNGBreaking ATTACHMENTS is nothing to do with being ISOLATED. Rather, it empowers the human to live INDEPENDENT life,which makes him VALUES everything but without attachments. When these attachments break, human suddenly realize that HE HAS WASTED ALL HIS LIFE FOR THOSE THINGS WHICH DID NOT MATTER AT ALL.

Thus, in order to avoid such dilemma and to live independent and an empowered life, human must break his ATTACHMENTS with his SURROUNDINGS but integrate VALUE AND APPRECIATION for them.

 

® Mindmasked 2017 © Sajal Khan

Authenticity Part 3: Acceptance of Mistakes

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Every human is liable to make Mistakes and commits them throughout the life. He continues to make blunders in personal, professional, and academic life.

authenticity-mistake-3-pic The prime FEATURE of non-aware human being is that he NEVER accepts his mistakes.

He considers himself as SUPREME of doing any kind of misjudgment or misunderstanding.

Throughout his life, he strongly clutches the belief that he DID NOT and CAN NOT make mistakes at all.

Consequently, when he actually makes some blunder, he NEVER accepts it to anyone and even to himself. From here, the game of AUTHENTICITY starts.

 

Authenticity demands human being to accept thing as they are. It forbids to apply PERSONAL AND SUBJECTIVE meaning to things and actions and the difference between Aware and Non-aware human being can easily be measured through his approach towards those Mistakes.

 

However, what non-aware human being does is, he remains reluctant to accept his FAULTS mainly due to EGO. He believes that if he surrenders to accept his mistakes, he would never able to live GRACEFULLY again. When this thought hits him, his mind shifts from EGO to AGFLAP and to other negative emotions which break the connection between him and CREATOR immediately.

These emotions start piling themselves like rocks and get harder with the span of time. These rocks of EGO, Anger, Pride, and Fear continue to dominate human because he is not ready to be AUTHENTIC with himself.

In the contrary, if human accept his MISTAKES in first place and surrender, then these rocks would never develop. However, if he believes that he is RIGHT all the times than these rocks would continue to be stronger and he starts living in the supreme state of SELF-RIGHTENOUSNESS and try to CONTROL other people’s life (like a BW).

In the contrary, those who are HUMBLE enough to ACCEPT their Mistakes, they actually show the courage of being AUTHENTIC. They surrender to UNIVERSE that they are liable to make MISTAKES, but they also LEARN from their misjudgment (which is most significant aspect). Their acceptance not only prevent them to commit their mistake again but also save them to fall in to the pit of EGO and AGFLAP. Their inner self do not experience any hard feeling due to absence of EMOTIONAL ROCKS. They do not attach Meanings with respect to their BELIEFS.

Displaying Authenticity 3-2.PNGHence, in order to live successful and content life, Human must learn the art of accepting his Mistakes and be Authentic. It saves him from Lifetime of Suffering.

 

 

 

® Mindmasked 2016 © Sajal Khan

Authenticity Part 2: Comfort Zone

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Human needs a plan or blueprint to live a successfully.

In order to achieve something remarkable in life, human needs to set some targets. This blueprint helps him to become closer with the target each day. However, he needs to break out of his Comfort Zone to achieve those target.

The question is what is comfort zone?

IDisplaying Authenticity 2.PNGt is a territory or kingdom within all humans which is solely controlled by Mind. Here, the sole Master, King, Monarch or authority is Mind. Mind is deadly enemy of human spirit and beingness. Anything which serves best to enhance human spirit and its experience on earth is strongly opposed by Mind.

The difference or issue between Mind and Spirit is just like of Armageddon. Both poles pull the human towards itself and its human’s choice that which pole he chooses. Normally, it has been seen that humans are more inclined to get attracted towards Mind’s pole instead of Spirit’s.

Human is attracted to Mind because, it shows him easy ways. On the contrary, the Spirit’s ways are slightly difficult and long.

Now question is how Mind’s ways are easy and Spirit’s ways are difficult? And, how is it all linked to Authenticity?

Actually, Mind shows narrow results of everything on extremely short-term basis. On the other hand, Spirit’s ways are long-term and broad. Mind forces human to choose easy ways to pursue in life and in this regard, it provides human innumerable number of excuses and ways. It forces human to remain enclosed in his COMFORT ZONE for rest of life because it is far EASIER to live in one’s own version of world.

The people, who are not AUTHENTIC to others or even to THEMSELVES, remain trapped in their comfort zone for rest of their life. The reason is that due to lack of AUTHENTICITY, they do not DARE to confess TRUTH behind their actions. They do not accept that the only hurdle in achieving their target is their laziness and unwillingness to explore.

In order to do something or achieve some target, the comfort zone must be broken. A human needs to understand that everything lies within him. Nothing is outside. When he embarks on the journey of being TRUE to himself and BE AUTHENTIC, he actually starts to become AUTHENTIC WITH CREATOR AND UNIVERSE.

This authenticity breaks his comfort zone and helps him to start his journey.

Authenticity with UNIVERSE is necessary to Break COMFORT ZONE, because the DNA is composed of those similar elements which created the UNIVERSE. Hence authenticity with oneself, makes human to be authentic both with Universe and Creator.

Once human becomes authentic, he himself starts breaking his tiny but numerous comfort zones. It allows him to expand his learning and maximize the opportunities of survival.

® Mindmasked 2017 © Sajal Khan

Fire in Human Desires

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There are certain things in life about which humans are deeply passionate.

Displaying Fire 1.PNGThese desires vary with every individual human being and they are so strong that he acquires them at least once in life.

These desires get fulfilled in certain pattern because, nothing happens in universe randomly.  There are bunch of things which he passionately wants and there are other stuff which he likes to have in life.

There are three categories of priorities: primary, secondary and tertiary.

Primary Category:

Those desires which lay in primary category, they are immediate wants of human. He wants to be fulfilled them at any cost and constantly dreams about their achievement. In similar manner, he also puts 100% focus, attention and hard work to acquire them. He lives in the feeling of those things and feels their presence in his surroundings. His cognitive cycle constantly revolves around those stuffs which he immediately wants in life. It can be anything such as desire to have admission in certain college, to have i-Phone, to buy some expensive apparel, or to get some job. AND THESE NEEDS AND DESIRES ARE  WHICH, THAT OFTEN GETS FULFILLED.

Secondary Category:

In second category, the level of passion reduces to certain extent. Here, he needs and aspire only certain things. This category highlights itself when his PRIMARY desires and passions are fulfilled. These desires can be related to vacation, home décor, some fancy car or to meet with some old friends.  

Tertiary Category:

Finally, in third category, there are things which he wants for himself but too lazy to work upon them or even to think about them. These desires usually erupt by watching certain celebrity or by seeing the progress of co-worker, friend or family. The desire to get the same amount of success and recognition erupts for a few moments but eventually, it dies. For example, by watching celebrity, a woman may desire to have lean figure and to get some fabulous haircut or by watching a coworker, a person may also desire to visit some exotic place or to acquire monthly spot award at work.

Fire in Human desires

It can be said that the category is main element to add Fire in Human desires. A person who lives in ultimate Fire of some primary desire, he constantly sends certain vibes to universe about that particular need or desire. In return, universe knit its web to fulfill that passion of the person. As the level of desire get reduces, the universe’s way of fulfilling that desire also gets slow down. Therefore, there are certain things in our life which we immediately acquire and some usually take years to get received.

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Here, by knowing this particular KEY on DESIRE’S CATEGORY, anyone might understand that why his particular desire or passion is not able to accomplish. People mostly blame God and society that they cause obstruction in acquiring one’s dream. However, they forget that the problems occur when person is himself is living in Apathy, Fear or Anger. Those people who are passionate about their targets, they remain focus on their GOALS. Consequently, Universe pay them accordingly.

Those people, who constantly love in Apathy and delay their tasks and blame others for their failure, are unable to achieve any of their desires.  It is due to the reason that they are too lazy to put proper attention to particular desire, which it needs to get fulfilled.

Displaying Fire 3.PNGThe best part is the realization that why humans lack certain things in life. These lacking can be overcome by practicing correct AGFLAP and giving right amount of attention, focus and Fire. All is needs to be done is AGFLAP and focus on the target. In this way, the third category desires automatically jump to First Category and begin to demonstrate themselves physically.

 

 

 

® Mindmasked 2016 © Sajal Khan

Expectations

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Expectations

There are certain people in your life, who are constant as an “x” in algebra. You can not leave them, you can not hide from them and you have to put with them no matter what we think. These so called people are called as family. It as well can also be a certain friend or maybe your extended family member.

Not everyone is blessed with family members who love, care, and be passionate about your well-being. They are mean, selfish, self-centered, jealous. No matter what you do, you are not able to appease them. They can be anyone such as your mother, father, sister, brother, and mostly sister-in-laws. On one hand, they are jealous and appalled of your success but they never left a chance to copy-paste your way of talking, eating, walking or your lifestyle. On the other hand, they never miss a chance to hurt, demoralize you and extract every drop of hope and bliss from you. They get happy when you are hurt, miserable and vulnerable. They even cherish your misery.

DOES IT HURT?

YES, A LOT. . .

 

CAN YOU DO ANY THING ABOUT IT?

NO, YOU CAN’T

 

Yes you heard me right, You can’t. The reason is that no matter what you do, they have decided to keep this thick wall of hatred and aloofness in between and they are not ready to demolish it at all.

So, the question of is what should we do actually?

First of all, you must do your self-evaluation and run the checking system. Most often the cause of your misery is you  yourself. May be this very situation has occurred due to your certain words, behavior or tone. If it did, it is not too late to change yourselves. You may start over any moment as long as you live. You may cut down our tone, correct the vocabulary and your behavior.

However, instead of taking high road there a time comes in our life when we realize that “OK, I was wrong and I did correct myself, but this person still get so many problem with me, what should I do”?

Here, STOP TAKING THE HIGH ROAD.

ITS TRUE WHEN YOU REALLY WANT TO MAKE DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE STOP TAKING IT.

The reason is that the concept of HIGH ROAD occurs when two people are in certain relationship or bound to each other. So if that relationship ends, there is no need to take any high road. Here you must be thinking that how can anyone break the relationship with parents, siblings, and in-laws?

Breaking relationship means that STOP THAT “RELATION” TO PUT ANY “IMPACT” OR “MISERY” on your life. In Urdu, I can simply translate it “Sar pe sawar karna chor dain”. When you STOP putting thought on that relationship, no matter whatever a person does, YOU WOULD NOT CARE ANYMORE.

It is their life, they chose to behave in certain way and if they are behaving it means they are burning in their own AGFLAP. If they are playing small dirty tricks to trap you, just let them. When they won’t get any reaction so far, they’ll eventually stop.

All you need to do it ACCEPT THEM AS THEY ARE. Their loss is that they LIVE IN AGFLAP AND CONTINUE TO LIVE IN IT AND UNABLE TO REACH THE CREATOR. ON THE OTHER HAND, YOU MY FRIEND GOT THE OPPORTUNITY TO HAVE THAT LIGHT.

In order to maintain that LIGHT, YOU NEED TO CUT THESE PEOPLE FROM VERY KEY DECISIONS OF YOUR LIFE. As an aware person, you are supposed to be POLITE AND NICE but you are not supposed to SHARE your STUFF with them NOT AT ALL. BIG NO NO and NO. You may not plan or see you future with them.

It took me a LIFE TIME to learn this precious lesson. All in my life I have been struggling to make people to LIKE me or to LOVE me. I suffered a large number of heart breaks and sadness. But Alhumdu Lil ALLAH, I realized that I DO NOT NEED THESE PEOPLE TO LIVE MY LIFE HAPPILY. THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT AND I AM NOT THAT PETTY ENOUGH THAT I WOULD NEED SOME HUMAN TO RELY ON.

Have a good day.

® Mindmasked 2016 © Sajal Khan

Control

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Recently, I came across with video in which a guy talked about the control that he REALIZED that he cannot control the world and people around him but, can control his own actions and deeds.

Control is that phenomenon of Non-Aware mind, which may destroy the people’s lives and filled it with poison. The irony is everyone just want to administer it with the maximum capacity.

Fathers want to control the life of their children, wives are concerned with controlling husband’s desires, husbands are intended to practice control on every action of their wife and children want to control their own life.

AlhumdulilAllah, my life has been fortunate enough to have appropriate freedom and liberty in it. My parents and siblings never tried to control my life and destiny. Rather, they supported me to acquire my targets and goals, due to which I reached to their present state. However, not all
people are that lucky enough. Recently, I came across with a girl in my van to whom I built a good understanding. As she was telling me about her life, I was horrified to know that how controlling her parents are. She wanted to study literature but her father forced her to study economics. She was working more than a year and about to get a promotion, but her parents forced her to leave the job so, they may find a GOOD MATCH for her.

Similarly, there is certain acquaintance of mine who are considerably well off. Their daughters do not wear anything other than the brand, but they also do not possess the freedom to choose their subjects for study and not allowed to choose husbands’ for themselves. They are compelled to marry the person, which is chosen by their parents.

The phenomenon of control appears when we so INDULGE with our desires. We want to shape the life of our surrounding people with respect to OUR STANDARDS AND BELIEFs. We try to impose OUR LEARNING on their life. Nevertheless, human fails to recognize that life is itself a quite dynamic phenomenon and change is constant. WE HAVE NO ABILITY TO GENERATE

CONTROLLED ENVIRONMENT FOR SPIRITS. ONLY ZOMBIE-LIKE- HUMANs CAN

LIVE IN THAT ENVIRONMENT.

And trust me, there are millions of Zombie people who happily live and prefer to live in the CONTROLLED state. The reason is that they CAPACITY to understand LIFE beyond their BELIEFS.

Nevertheless, those who get LIGHT of Creator always challenge this social SYSTEM. They fight with it FACE-TO- FACE and refuse to accept the so-called norms and traditions of society. So, it is the time we should evaluate our own life that is WE VICTIM OF SOME CONTROL

OR WE ARE CONTROLLING SOMEONE.

Cheers.

Attachment Part 1: Chains of Emotions

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For humans, attachment is a poison. When people are attached to each other at one or other level, it definitely brings heartbreak at least once in life. It is that TRUTH which everyone knows but hesitates to remove from life. A person continuously allows attachment to dominate his life because the process of its removal brutally scratches out one from his very COMFORT ZONE.

COMFORT ZONE is a unique heaven on earth which prevents the human to go out and explore the CREATOR’S UNIVERSE. It keeps the mind busy in AGFLAP and more importantly keep it trapped in human-based attachment. But the question is what attachment is itself?

It is an emotions based connection between two human beings (or with other living or non-living object), in which they experience strong belief that life is impossible without the existence of each other. Nearly, every human being on earth somehow attached to something at certain level.

People are attached to their mother, father, children, spouse, friends, or relatives. They all practice strong BELIEF that life would end without the presence of these very people. Nevertheless, they forget that the people to whom they are attached are very members of this society. They all have their mind-based beliefs and they constantly live in AGFLAP. So, what is the guarantee that the attached-person would always react in one’s favor.

So, in spite of knowing this fact that attachment will not give any benefit, why human continue to pursue it?

It is due to the reason that attachment is that specific thing or phenomenon, which prevents human to turn towards the light of CREATOR. As non-aware human is LAZY person, so he continued to get entangled in the trap of human attachment instead of Focusing the light of Creator.

Breaking of attachment with humans is a painful process.  During this process, mind screams in pain and it cries a lot and push human to AGFLAP again and again. Nevertheless, those who get succeed to pass this phase are fortunate enough to REALIZE that UNIVERSE IS FAR BEYOND WORLDLY ATTACHMENTS AND IT IS NOT LIMITED TO EARTH’S TINY MEAN INHABITANTS.

This realization automatically brings human MILES closer to CREATOR’s attachment. He stops depending on other humans and human-based society, rather focuses on rhythm and symphony of UNIVERSE.

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It is that Phase when human does not run after other human and beg them to be there for him. Rather, he consoles in attachment of Creator and enjoys his existence.

Transgender in Eastern Society

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Transgender: A Unique Realization

Recently I made an assignment on the transgender community of Bangladesh, which is also known as Hijra Community. In this assignment, I came to know that how Bengali government recognized the plight of this community and gave them representation in government offices.

Through this assignment, I came to study about the numerous key members of this community, who truly mesmerized me. Generally, there is a wide opinion that the transgender community of South Asia is not actually transgender. The male members of society usually enter in this
community, due to their weak financial situation and lack of employment opportunities.

Therefore, there is a widespread opinion that most of the Hijras are not real ones, rather they only dress up like women.

However, through this assignment, I came to know some of those who truly embraced the idea of transgenderism and actually implemented in their life. Through this forum, we have the clear idea about AGFLAP, Mind, DNA, and authenticity. The point is I truly saw these elements in this the community as well. The cleaner DNA, aware mind, and empty AGFLAP directly influences our personality and give it a certain glow. I felt that glow on those Hijras, who seemed to be authentic with their transgender reality.

I came to realize that being a transgender is not restricted to dressing up and acting like women, RATHER, IT IS AN ACT OF EMBRACING THE VERY IDEA OF FEMINISM AND MAKE IT A LIFESTYLE.

Normally, in our society, the Hijras are considered as creepy and disgraced. This assignment made me realize that this very feeling of CREEPINESS emerges due to the reason that most of the Hijras are actually male and they are just using this lifestyle as a profession. They are NOT TRUE with the nature and essence of this community. On the other hand, those hijras who are TRUE with their transgender identity and adopt this lifestyle in the CORE OF THEIR DNA, their personality not only emerges as extremely elegant but also turns on the one’s spiritual sense. They automatically develop the unique kind of sophistication and elegance, which is only limited to the ladies of royal families.

Before this very realization, I also used to hold discriminated OPINION about the Hijras. Nevertheless, my study made me realize that if we are TRUE with ourselves and identity, it does not matter we are, whether male, female, or transgender woman.

Toxic People

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Often, we come across certain people in our life, with whom we feel like “this is one; he/she is really my friend”. It is due to the reason that their chemistry and bond exceptionally match with our mentality and there we feel sudden ease and comfort level with them.

BUT, it is not necessary that these WONDERFUL people are always good for us. It is similar to the notion that wine tastes very good, but not good for health. Cigarettes seem to be the stress reliever, but they yield cancer. Similarly, fast food tastes so yum, cheesy, and watery but it is the silent killer of our health.

If our bondage with someone is extremely perfect at MIND level, it does not mean THAT a particular person is also SPIRITUALLY good for us. This is the reason it has been said that “when you enter in college/university, chose your friends wisely. Otherwise, you would BECOME that a person who your friends are”.

Let me illustrate this philosophical debate in easy explanation. At work, there was XYZ person to whom I had great understanding and bonding. We used to do several things together and our FRIENDSHIP was visible to everyone. Nevertheless, I am a dominating and straightforward person and don’t mind to straighten out things with people. My XYZ friend used to enjoy the cheesy flavor of my tongue and used to provoke against my seniors. I was in non-aware state and I kept slipping in that charm for the sake of LOOKING GOOD among my peers. However, it
made things very difficult for me and I even received the warning.

Now that person is gone. Before his leaving, I used to think that “he is my friend and how would I survive without him at work”. But, it turned out that I am surviving pretty well. Things are not that negative as they have been projected by that person.

It does not mean that I am not going to talk to him anymore. Off course, I will but with people of the AWARE state. It is good for me that the person is already gone, but I have learned a lesson of my life. It gave me the realization that

WE MUST NOT INDULGE OURSELVES IN OTHER PEOPLE’S LIKES OR DISLIKES.

Because it poisons our life and our very close family members, relatives, friends, spouses or kids play this role efficiently. But, human often does it because he has inherited desire of

LOOKING GOOD (which Sierra has taught me). I became the victim of it too because I wanted to look good in front of my friend and it cost me the pretty deal. Nevertheless, it is never too late to get change and become AWARE. So, let’s just Cheers.

® Mindmasked 2016 © Sajal Khan

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